THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need your help! I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and we live together time to time. We originally met when I worked at strip club. Then, we were both huge party animals and went out drinking a lot. Since then, we have both settled down and I have pretty much stopped drinking completely only smoke weed. My problem is that he still goes out drinking often, and gets ridiculously wasted with his buddies. He comes home and acts like an idiot. He almost always tries to start a fight and sometimes is so drunk he pukes all over the house and urinates (and I’m the one who has to clean up). Drinking changes his personality so much and I’m so sick of having to deal with it but I still love him. It was never an issue when I was drinking heavily too, but now that I’ve cleaned my life up it is getting beyond the point he is annoying. I don’t want to tell him to stop drinking completely. He is almost 50, I kind of thought he would be over partying like this by now. What should I do? Yuki.
If I were you I would forward him this link and in the subject of the email write: ‘This is how I feel’.- nik