THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I need some advice about an ex-boyfriend. I’m 21 years old and in college. I started dating my ex in February, who btw is 32 years old (don’t know what I was thinking at the time). We had some ups and downs in our relationship that ended right after Easter. This guy was crazy in love with me after a month and I was not on the same page. We almost broke up after I introduced him to my brother, in which case he made an ass out of himself and also freaked out on me the next night and started screaming at me. A week and a half later our relationship ended by him ignoring my texts and phone calls while I was visiting my family in Austin easter weekend. He sent me a text stating we needed to talk when I got back (at 3:30 in the morning the day I was traveling back to Columbus). I got back and he wanted to meet up but stopped texting me and answering my calls again when it came to talking about the matter. I showed up at his house to get my stuff since clearly we are over and I find out he has some girl living in his room with him now. After that he was begging me to forgive him, saying he didn’t cheat on me and he still wanted to be my friend. One night I saw him out with this girl and his roommates and I confronted both of them, We talked, he kissed me twice and then begged me to go out with him the next night to talk. I blew him off and then he begged me again to go out and talk. This time he stood me up and stopped all communication. I guess I wanna know what you think his intentions are/were and how to avoid this from other guys for the future.
He sounds like a mass murderer who plays games with women without the killing part. You guys are both toxic and you’re just as bad. You love the head games with this guy, but I will blame your age this time. Him on the other hand… he has major issues at his age. His dad must have treated his mother like sh*t. Also, nothing I tell you as advice will work. You don’t want advice, you want chaos.- nik